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What if we stopped chasing money and started chasing the mission?
I recently had the chance to hear Robert Egger speak at an event hosted by South Sound Partners for Philanthropy, and I walked out feeling like someone had finally put my thoughts into words. For years, I have been standing in front of community groups asking a version of the same question. Egger asked it better than I ever have, and I want to share what stuck with me.

TrudyS
6 days ago4 min read


Nose in, Fingers out: Why this Board Mantra Falls Apart.
If someone hands you a financial statement and you cannot tell the difference between a healthy fund balance and a red flag, what do you do? Some people go quiet and rubber-stamp whatever is put in front of them. Others go the opposite direction.

TrudyS
Oct 37 min read


The Wisdom We Used to Trust: What's Happening to Women of a Certain Age in the Nonprofit and For-Profit Sectors
A look at Hagitude, gendered ageism, and who still gets called wise There was a time — and it wasn't so long ago, depending on which culture and which century you're standing in — when a woman who had lived long enough to raise a family, bury a few people she loved, run a household or a village council or a healing practice, was the person you went to when you needed real judgment. She was the elder. The one who'd seen enough cycles to know which crisis was actually a crisis

TrudyS
Sep 266 min read


When a Nonprofit Falls Apart, What Do We Owe Each Other?
When an organization falls apart — whether from a board that lost its grip on governance, or an executive who ran the place into the ground, or some tangled combination of both — what do we actually owe each other?

TrudyS
Sep 199 min read


The Hardest Resignation Letter You'll Ever Write
Sometimes founders and long-tenured leaders want to stay for the wrong reasons: they don't know what to do next, they haven't planned for their retirement, their identity is with the organization, or they don't think the organization can survive without them.

TrudyS
May 259 min read


Can We Offer Each Other a Little More Grace?
Never publicly shame anyone — this approach leads to resentment, damaged morale, and a workplace culture headed toward toxicity. That's not a culture any of us wants to build — especially not in mission-driven organizations where trust and psychological safety are foundational. Time for grace.

TrudyS
May 45 min read


Are We Paying Consultants to Tell Us What We Already Know?
I'm not here to argue that outside expertise is always theater. It genuinely isn't. And after years of watching organizations navigate this, I'd say there are some situations where the outside voice isn't just useful — it's the honest choice.

TrudyS
Apr 2015 min read


Damned If You Do, Damned If You Don't: The Impossible Tightrope of Letting People Learn
One of the most disorienting things about accumulating genuine expertise is that it can start to feel like a liability.

TrudyS
Apr 612 min read


You've Lost Your Mojo. Now What?
Writing this wasn't just an exercise in sharing wisdom — it was me working through my own reckoning out loud, because that's the only way I know how to do hard things.

TrudyS
Apr 28 min read


When the Ground Shifts Beneath Us
Permission to grief as the ground shifts beneath us

TrudyS
Mar 910 min read


We're Looking for Someone Humble
If your organization is drafting a job description and reaches for "humble," pause and ask: what behavior are we actually trying to describe?

TrudyS
Mar 27 min read


Start 2026 in the Right Headspace: Your Blueprint for a Transformational Year
2026 doesn't have to be about perfection. It's about progress, growth, and showing up for yourself in ways that actually matter.

TrudyS
Jan 53 min read
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